February came, a month where we celebrated romantic kind of love. The journey from attraction to falling in love may involve a wide range of emotions and intrigues. Sparked by physical attraction, shared interests, or simply spending time together, people seek for a deeper connection. As the relationship progresses, the attraction grows deeper into feelings of affection and admiration. Falling in love comes easy during moments of great comfort, joy, and warmth. 

But do you know the important traits of love that could ensure long lasting relationships? What kind of love is in motion, the quality of love that you have as a standard? Here are some defining attitude that one should be aware in the love life

True love is never a chase, it blossoms with effortless ease

The pursuit of love has been a human endeavor since time immemorial. The prospect of having a special someone to share one’s life with is an alluring one, capable of setting hearts aflutter. However, the truth is that love is not something that necessarily requires chasing. It is not a prize to be won or a trophy to be earned through the sheer force of will.

Genuine love blossoms when we least expect it. It comes into our lives when we are most open and receptive to it, and when we are unburdened by the pressure of seeking it out. Love is a precious gift that is bestowed upon us when we are ready to receive it. When we engage in the relentless pursuit of love, we run the risk of missing out on the many joys and wonders that life has to offer. We may overlook the people who are right in front of us, or we may settle for someone who is not a suitable match. By releasing ourselves from the burden of trying to find love, we enable ourselves to fully enjoy the many wonders that life has to offer. We then become naturally attractive to potential partners who share our values and complement our lives. Love is not a prize to be won, but a manifestation of the human heart when we are most open and receptive to it.

Embrace vulnerability, let love blossom

Love requires an individual to lay bare their true selves, to open up to the possibility of being hurt or rejected. This is not an easy task, and requires a great deal of courage and bravery. Those who are unwilling to take risks, who are not bold enough in their pursuits of love, may find it hard to even build worthwhile relationships. Meanwhile, the brave may be rewarded with a deep and meaningful connection with another person, one that can bring immense joy and fulfillment to their lives. Do note that the sweetest memories are made when you take a leap of faith.

Love is not a burden, make sure you are heard

Broken as we are, most of us are conditioned to a wrong model of love. A model of always giving and never taking, allowing oneself to be pushed to the edge of our sanity without mercy. The ramifications of such behavior can be profound, leading to a sense of isolation and disconnect even when surrounded by people we love. While the cause relates strongly to our childhood experience, there is time for us to learn how to love. It may be uncomfortable to do but we all need to learn to communicate about ourselves, setting boundaries, and later establish healthy relationships with those around us, in which our needs are respected and honored.

Love is a choice

One of the most intriguing aspects of this emotion is the idea that love is a choice, rather than a simple matter of fate or happenstance. While it is true that attraction and chemistry play a role in the initial stages of a relationship, the decision to love someone is ultimately up to the individual. The choice to love is one of the most profound and transformative decisions that an individual can make. Love is not simply a feeling or an emotion, but a choice that requires commitment, sacrifice, and a deep appreciation for the complexities and joys of the human experience.

Now at the end of this post, let us reassess ourselves and redirect our attention in a healthier way. From the nuance behind the problems posed, It is safe to say that the journey to healthy love begins when we are able to be at ease with our own self. Direct your energy and attention inwardly and you will shine brightly.